About the Swinging

The swinging couple or exchange (in English “swing”, “swinging”, “swing” or “swing”), also referred to as lifestyle swingers lifestyle or simply “the lifestyle” (although this term also used by people in BDSM), includes a wide range of sexual activities conducted between two or more persons or exchangers (English swingers).

The couple exchange activities include:

* Observing how they relate to others sexually.
* Having sex with your partner while being watched.
* Kissing, fondling and oral sex with a third or fourth person (called soft swap “Soft Swing”).
* Having sexual intercourse with someone else besides your partner (exchange “Full Swap,” which is the commonly understood definition swingers).

Typically Swinging activities occur when a married couple or otherwise compromised, becomes involved with a similar couple or a single individual. These activities may occur or not in the same room. Sex on these occasions is called game. The phenomenon (or at least discussion) can be seen as part of a sexual revolution of recent decades.

Organizations

Some couples exchange activities are highly organized. There are at least 400 swingers clubs in the U.S. and more than 600 in Europe. In most big cities have at least one permanent club but often keep a low profile to avoid negative attention. Exchangers are found through magazines, personal ads, exchange and house parties across the network.

Clubs are typically divided into clubs “internal” (“On premise”), where sexual activity may occur within local clubs and “external” (“Off premise”), where sexual activity is not allowed within the local but can be arranged at a nearby location.

Apart from the business organizations are moving SW as a business, are self-management organizations that see the swingerismo as a way of life and if they are organized as NGOs.

The form begins to appear in Latin America is the Circle of Trust, ie groups that are recognized as couples swingers couples and protect each other outside businesses that would exploit the local lifestyle, business, brokerage in which it operates by means of payment.

Swinger group for circle of trust is based on the Mexican circles called The Cat in the darkness, who have established a civil canal, outsider, for Mexican couples who want to exchange without the mediation of business or money. To many couples, the lifestyle and the clubs are as much a social and sexual aspect.

Most of the foreign clubs are a form of bar or nightclub, sometimes renting an existing bar events scheduled in the days when they have little demand. In Europe, the foreign clubs are rare.

There are three standard formats: the bar / nightclub, usually small, located in city centers and focused around the dance floor, the Spa format nudist environment, with pools, whirlpools, saunas, steam rooms and the format of country club, outside the cities, which include elements of the two, and also offer extensive recreational areas and usually serve as food buffet.

There are some national organizations that organize the exchange of its members, conventions and group vacations. In Europe, exchanges across the continent congregate in July and August in the village Cap d’Agde nudist in southern France, where there are about eight clubs Swinger. In high season, Cap d’Agde has a population of 30,000 people.

History

According to Terry Gould’s work The Lifestyle: A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers, the couple began sharing among Air Force pilots and their wives during World War II. Since the 1920s, the practice became widespread in the U.S. and Europe mainly, and from there to many other countries.

In the Spain of the seventies was known in small circles a luxurious villa in the mountains of Madrid where he organized meetings of small groups of professional couples.

Also around the same time he would have swinger activity with some regularity in certain campsites, between social classes more modest. Magazines such as the historic Lib was one of the few channels of contact between couples in the late seventies and during the eighties.

In Mexico in the mid-’90s swinger movement began to spread through the interior of the country due to the regionalization of erotic magazines as Club Swinger and Gallery Erotica, which at first only had circulation in the major cities.

Beginning in 2000, began the rise of Swinger bars in the capital of the Mexican Republic, which lately not only allow their customers to exchange between partners, but also added in its various types of sex variety show, where they themselves are the protagonists.

Label

Some consider the Swinger “lifestyle” as a different subculture.

The “main directive” in the exchange partner is “no” means “no.” This means the rejection of a sexual proposal does not require justification and must be always respected.

The violation of this rule sometimes leads to immediate expulsion. Other strict rules in many swingers clubs is the compulsory use of condoms, which must be unique for each sex.

Making a point on the label should be noted that the approaches, at least in the EU, are carried out by mild strokes not erogenous zones, if they are permitted, means the tacit consent to continue.

In the U.S., is considered inappropriate to touch without asking permission, while in Europe, including the UK, playing as strongly remove the hand are widely accepted as adequate, although there is no verbal communication in the context of the game.

We could summarize the rules in order of highest to lowest importance, respect, hygiene and discretion.

Polyamory

Many members of the community polyamory lifestyle differ exchangers partner to put more emphasis on long-lasting committed relationships, to consider instead the exchange of sexual partners as a recreational activity, subject to heat and other aspects of monogamy. But many other people within communities and polyamory swingers are matching both practices in sexuality and intimacy open.

Single Status

In general, swingers clubs have no place for single people. However, some may admit for a price.

Some oppose any kind involving unmarried couples with the heat exchangers because of fears that may tend to separate the existing partners, which seek to maintain affective fidelity.

Source: http://es.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intercambio_de_pareja

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